{"id":1325,"date":"2019-01-01T00:43:03","date_gmt":"2019-01-01T00:43:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.aerialdancing.com\/blog\/?p=1325"},"modified":"2026-03-15T16:34:03","modified_gmt":"2026-03-15T16:34:03","slug":"ditch-your-resolutions-for-habits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.aerialdancing.com\/blog\/ditch-your-resolutions-for-habits\/","title":{"rendered":"Ditch your Resolutions for Habits"},"content":{"rendered":"

Blog by McKell Anderson<\/em><\/p>\n

As one year passes into the next, many people reflect on what the next year of life should hold. Goal setting and New Year\u2019s Resolutions abound! Some make it through the end of the year, but many of them fall to the wayside not long after the goal was set. There is a common idea for setting goals using the SMART formula. Goals should be S<\/strong>pecific, M<\/strong>easurable, A<\/strong>ppropriate, R<\/strong>ealistic, and T<\/strong>imely. In the book Atomic Habits, by James Clear, he makes an argument against this being the most effective way of reaching your goals. As a math-oriented person that loves specific and methodical approaches, the dismantling of this goal setting notion made me very uncomfortable.\u00a0 After reading the book, I tell you what my circus friends,\u00a0 I am a believer! Below are a few tidbits from the book that really resonated with me and my relationship with training aerial.<\/p>\n

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Levels of Change<\/strong><\/h2>\n

When it comes to self-improvement there are three levels of change:<\/p>\n

1. Outcome
\n2. Process
\n3. Identity<\/p>\n

Most New Year\u2019s Resolutions or SMART-formula goals are based on the Outcome level of change. This is an excellent start, but for lasting behavior change to occur and a habit to develop then addressing the next two levels is very important.<\/p>\n

Outcome level<\/h4>\n

Outcome level addresses what you GET if you achieve your goal. For many aspiring aerialists, those goals will be things like straight leg inversions, flat splits, or a Kerri Kresinski level windmill.<\/p>\n

Process Level<\/h4>\n

Process level changes address what you DO to achieve your goal. This is where you must create a plan of action that will lead you to the results you desire. This is the level where habits begin. This is where the conditioning, stretching, or creation must be defined to carry you through to the finish line.<\/p>\n

Identity level<\/h4>\n

Identity level change addresses what you BELIEVE. This is important because if you believe you are not a flexible person, then having a goal of becoming more flexible will always clash against your identity. The hard part about identity is that it is not a simple thing to change. One of the benefits of creating consistent habits (process level) is that they can lead you to identity\u00a0reformation. If you don\u2019t believe that you are a dancer, but proceed to dance every day for at least five minutes then you will start to create a track record that undeniably defines you as a dancer.<\/p>\n

One of the biggest things the book drives is that the outcomes you want will always be a lagging indicator of the habits you currently have. \u201cYour net worth is a lagging measure of your financial habits, your weight is a lagging measure of your eating habits, your clutter is a lagging measure of your cleaning habits, your knowledge is a lagging measure of your learning habits.\u201d<\/em> For circus artists, your strength is a lagging measure of your conditioning habits, your flexibility is a lagging measure of your stretching habits, your endurance is a lagging measure of your airtime training habits. Don\u2019t underestimate the importance of making small improvements daily.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou do not rise to the level of your goals, you fall to the level of your systems.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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Laws of Behavior Change<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Any established habits that exist in your life have developed from repeated repetitions through what is known as a Behavior Loop. Understanding the loop is what can help us manipulate our behavior to do more of what will help us meet our goals. A behavior loop consists of the following four steps:<\/p>\n

1. Cue (Sore muscles from excess training)
\n2. Crave (Relief from stiffness)
\n3. Response (Gets a sports massage)
\n4. Reward (Feels much better)<\/p>\n

The first three steps will impact what happens THIS time, but the fourth step will determine what you do NEXT time. If the massage wasn\u2019t helpful, it is less likely that you will try that method again. If the massage did help, then it will stay an option in your future to help with sore muscles. Using this pattern, we can use this loop to help modify our behavior to take on good habits or get rid of bad habits using the Four Laws of Behavior Change.<\/p>\n

1. Make it obvious
\n2. Make it attractive
\n3. Make it easy
\n4. Make it satisfying<\/p>\n

In order to add a habit into our routine, these four steps will make it easier and help establish the plan of action needed for process level change. To initiate a habit, using environment design can help us make it obvious. Place a book on your pillow to read a page before bed, put your coffee mug on your yoga mat so that you must go to the space you do yoga before you can get coffee, pre-pack your gym clothes and put them in your car the night before work so that they are ready without thought the next morning.\u00a0 Change your environment so that it automatically cues you to begin.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Making habits more attractive can be tricky. One of the things you can do is to pair a habit you NEED to do with a habit you WANT to do. In the book, the author refers to this trick as habit stacking<\/span>. If there is something in your life that you already do all the time, use that frequent habit to insert another habit before\/after it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

EXAMPLE: In my life, I wake up every morning between 0630-0700 to let my dogs out. While I am in the process of walking through the kitchen, I will stop and take my thyroid pill. This is a habit stack that I had unconsciously designed into my life already but can use that same pattern to insert more habits in a similar way.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The third rule is where I anticipated the book’s applications to fall apart. Circus is not easy and so clearly all my aspirations of being a contortionist were doomed. However, the habit doesn\u2019t have to start out difficult. In fact, the author recommended that you scale down your goal to something you can do in two minutes or less<\/strong>. Once you have a two-minute habit established, you can grow it.<\/p>\n

EXAMPLE: I decided that when I was working after I finished editing a video and it was exporting, I would do ONE handstand drill in my office. I\u2019ve been doing handstand training every day for a week now. It\u2019s not the same as setting aside an hour to train them each day, but I\u2019m doing it consistently where I have never<\/em> been able to set aside an hour to train handstands at home before. Most of all, the habit doesn’t feel hard.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

A lot of time the habit done for two minutes can really set the stage for choices that follow. In the book, the author refers to this as a Gateway Habit. Maybe your habit is that when you get home from work, you put on running shoes. That takes less than two minutes, but can also decide how the next twenty minutes of your day goes even if in your mind you didn\u2019t plan on running for twenty minutes. You just had to make the initiation easy enough to get started.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The last rule of behavior change is also one of the most difficult. Satisfaction with a habit is usually based the time immediately following a response. Many of the rewards we are looking for in circus are very LONG term in nature. If there is no reward present immediately following our action, we will ultimately fall off the wagon. Creating an immediate reward that is satisfying after doing the habit you want to build is important. This is especially important because there are more structures in the brain for WANTING than for LIKING. We will crave things much easier than we will like them when we get them. If the reward isn\u2019t there, our brain will crave a new approach even<\/em> if what we are doing is working<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Just make sure the reward fits your identity and personality.<\/strong> Don\u2019t reward going to the gym with ice cream, that is an identity conflict. Don\u2019t use a habit tracker if you are not into organization and documentation, that is a personality conflict. Sometimes the easiest way to reward yourself can be out loud, verbal praise like \u201cI am the type of person who does the splits every day\u201d will give the ego enough to feel rewarded with a habit. This part can be very personal and needs to be explored and thought out. “Incentives will start a habit, but identity will sustain it.”<\/em>\u00a0 The habit needs to be rewarding enough to make it through enough repetitions to become part of your identity.<\/p>\n

Battling Boredom<\/strong><\/h2>\n

One of the issues with establishing a habit is that eventually, you will become bored with it. Sometimes even with the right rewards and the alignment with our identity that we have created, we STILL won\u2019t want to do \u201cthe thing.\u201d This ladies and gentlemen is the phase that defines the successful from the unsuccessful. Professionals stick to the schedule, while amateurs let life get in the way.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you only do the work when it is interesting or exciting, then you will never be consistent enough to get remarkable results.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

We will all hit this wall with our pursuit of habits and the fact is that those that succeed have learned that it is important to show up even when you don\u2019t feel like it. In fact, the best thing you can do is learn to fall in love with boredom.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Life happens and missing a day is bound to happen. Just remember that it is never the first mistake that ruins your plans. Even if you scale your habit back to the original two-minute attempt that it grew from, doing a little will always be better than doing nothing. \u201cMissing once is an accident, missing twice is the start of a new habit.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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Additional Wisdom from the Book\u2026.<\/strong>
\n\u2022 \u201cWhen preparation becomes a form of procrastination you need to change something.\u201d<\/em>
\n\u2022 \u201cThe amount of time you\u2019ve spent performing a habit is not as important as the number of times you perform it.\u201d<\/em>
\n\u2022 \u201cA habit must be established before it can be improved. Standardize, then optimize.\u201d<\/em>
\n\u2022 \u201cSometimes success is less about making good habits easy and more about making bad habits hard.\u201d<\/em>
\n\u2022 \u201cHabits + deliberate practice + mastery\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I really enjoyed this book and its approach.\u00a0 Plus, it was very relevant to the time of year and that isn’t even why I bought it.\u00a0 There was so much in the book that it is impossible to cover every part that I enjoyed. My recommendation is that if these ideas intrigue you, read or listen to the book. I wrote down pages of quotes, but don\u2019t want to risk plagiarism by sharing them all. Just remember, it doesn\u2019t take 30 days to make a habit, it takes forever. To get the benefits of the habits you need to frequently be doing them, regardless of the passage of time. While that seems overwhelming if these are identity level habits then you being who you are as a person shouldn\u2019t be as difficult to be consistent with. Remember:<\/p>\n

\u201cSmall habits don\u2019t add up, they compound!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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If you enjoyed McKell’s recap of the book and want to read further, check out\u00a0Atomic Habits, by James Clear<\/a> on Amaon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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